Free Therapy • Doing The Least
This video is about 1 thing plain and simple:
unsolicited advice.
My commenters on YouTube gave me some great points. Watch the video and let me know you what you think.
Enjoy!
Until next time Glam Fam I wish you
Life, Liberty & The Pursuit of Nappyness,
Roshini Cope
Roshini Cope, aka Glamazini, is a life coach and video creator who gained a following for her natural hair tutorials, which evolved into authentic personal stories of healing with a consistent dash of humor. She is a black woman healing helping other black women heal, expand their self-awareness, reclaim their joy, and create the life they want. Work with Roshini 🤎✨🤎
4 Comments
Dannielle
Hi Roshini,
Interesting question. I think it depends on the setting. In line at a cafeteria I would be less likely to share than sitting in a coffee shop or shopping. The more relaxed the setting, the more relaxed I am about offering *in hindsight sometimes unwanted* therapy.
glamazini
@Dannielle —————
Makes sense. Thanks for sharing.
Me
1st: lmao @ “I mean a fresh perm, FRESH! perm”. chuckle. 🙂
2nd (this’ll probably sound bad): I feel like I’m on the extreme side of that spectrum–I normally don’t even like it when my advice is solicited (by strangers mostly). I kinda feel like just because I am ___fill in the blank___, doesn’t necessarily make me the expert. Maybe it’s the pressure of feeling like I have to be able to give the “right” answer when asked, but I usually try to dodge those moments of unsolicited advice. Of course the irony is that I do respond to some of your blog posts every once in a while which is semi-unsolicited, so there are exceptions to my madness. 🙂
glamazini
LOL! Nothing wrong with madness, that’s how I fuel this blogging thing 😛